It is not our case, we have a lot of fun having sex everywhere, making my man feel good is part of being a good wife. My husband treats me like a princess, with love and good treatment, I pay him back
You have a victim default coping mechanism, to blame the other when not given what you want. A partner will put up with this denial for a while then OUT. Male or female. Your approach allows men to go cheating because they've been denied sex or been mistreated by their wives/partners.